Tip number one. PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES
You may have already heard of this. However, empathy is not an overrated thing at all. We are different, at least in some ways. So, if you’re not ready to see a situation from another perspective too, how can you really understand what’s going on?
There is truly no doubt that men and women see relationships from varying angles, but a desire for trustful behavior isn`t reserved for one gender. Indeed, you’ll find that if you look at the situation from her perspective, there are similarities to what you’re thinking yourself.
Do you want her to be honest and trustworthy with you? Do you want to actively plan activities you`ll do together? Do you want to know her circle of friends and see that she`s letting you into her life? Do you want to know that she`s showing trust? See, it all comes full circle! Your lady is in a similar situation.
She wants you to show her that she`s an essential component of your life, not that you want to keep her at arm`s length. This involves restraining yourself without explaining why, not asking for “freedom” aggressively, not ghosting or gaslighting her (at all).
After all, don’t you want the same things?
