Colm O'Connor

some point, you decided to have a partner and you began to sail together in one boat. In this analogy, the boat represents your relationship. The ocean and the weather represent the forces of life. The horizon represents your ultimate destiny.

There is nothing you can do to control the ocean or the weather.

• You must try to survive and thrive as long as you can.

• You must work together to steer the boat and stay afloat.

• Many things can impede you, such as stormy weather and rough seas.

• Ocean currents can sweep you in different directions.

• At some point later in the journey one of you will be taken by the ocean or a storm.

• One of you will eventually be left alone in the boat.

• The journey is worthwhile and, despite its many challenges, can be deeply enriching.