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👍Okumaya değer💡Çok Şey Öğrendim🎯DeğerIt sheds some light on individuals behaviour when it comes to personal/romantic relationships. It provides the framework to identify the type of attachment person you or your partner are, therefore allowing you to deal with situations faced during interactions with our partners. A good book in understanding ourselves.
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- forgetenotalıntı yaptı5 yıl önce
Does this mean that in order to be happy in a relationship we need to be joined with our partner at the hip or give up other aspects of our life such as our careers or friends? Paradoxically, the opposite is true! It turns out that the ability to step into the world on our own often stems from the knowledge that there is someone beside us whom we can count on—and this is the “dependency paradox.” The logic of this paradox is hard to follow at first. How can we act more independent by being thoroughly dependent on someone else? If we had to describe the basic premise of adult attachment in a single sentence, it would be: If you want to take the road to independence and happiness, first find the right person to depend on and travel down it with them. Once you understand this, you’ve grasped the essence of attachment theory. - Mariaalıntı yaptı8 ay önce
Your attachment needs are legitimate.
• You shouldn’t feel bad for depending on the person you are closest to—it is part of your genetic makeup.
• A relationship, from an attachment perspective, should make you feel more self-confident and give you peace of mind. If it doesn’t, this is a wake-up call!
• And above all, remain true to your authentic self—playing games will only distance you from your ultimate goal of finding true happiness, be it with your current partner or with someone else. - Mariaalıntı yaptı8 ay önceIn a true partnership, both partners view it as their responsibility to ensure the other’s emotional well-being.
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