Gifts from Eykis

The true test of love is loving those who refuse to return it as you would prefer,” she said.

he true test of love is loving those who refuse to return it as you would prefer,” she said.

eep it simple. You want to make life complicated. You endorse big fancy words that no one understands over simple language and call it intelligence. You use mumbo-jumbo in your legal systems, your contracts, insurance policies, tax laws, mortgages, and on and on. Then you hire ‘experts’ to wade through the mazes you’ve created. In religion, philosophy, psychology, medicine, law, education, economics, and almost every form of human enterprise, you attempt to keep things complicated and somehow maintain that simplicity means simple-minded. Yet your best writers, composers, artists, and educators are those who use clear, precise language and style to convey their meaning.

Again, self-responsibility for all of your life experiences, rather than blame, is the key to a full, happy life. Teach those around you through behavior, not empty arguments, that you will tolerate nothing less than respect. This is never difficult for those who have self-respect, since a person with high self-esteem expects the same kind of treatment from others that they expect of themselves. Respect yourself, and you’ll receive respect.

rom what I’ve noted, happiness, fulfillment, and purpose in life are all inner concepts. If you don’t have inner peace and serenity, you have nothing, and still you scorn those who ask you to look inward and banish those who do so as a way of life. This simple secret is overlooked on your planet in all phases of life. You should reexamine your resistance to this fact of your reality. The kingdom of heaven symbolizes the ultimate perfection. It is not a place to arrive, nor a reward for being a conformist. It is within you to have this wonderful effortless perfection. It is yours for the taking. Looking inward will bring about serenity in all its luxurious forms on your planet.
“Everything in the universe is exactly as it should be.

here is really only one sure way to make your relationships work, and that is to recognize each other’s right to be separate, unique human beings without any ‘ownership’ expectations from each other. I have observed that the relationships in which this simple principle was respected by both people flourished. In relationships that ignored it, I noted constant haranguing, endless dull conversations, and ultimately a breakup. Relationships do not require work, they cry for and demand nothing more than mutual respect.

elationships do not require work, they cry for and demand nothing more than mutual respect.

hear: I forget. I see: I remember. I do: I understand. This simple little secret seems to me to be ignored by most of you here on Earth. Your unique reality system prohibits you from understanding without internalizing and experiencing. No one on your planet can understand swimming, bicycle riding, dancing, making love, or anything else, without experiencing it. Yet you spend much of your energy on lecturing others, explaining endlessly how to do something, showing pictures and even telling each other how easy it was for ME to lea

In fact, it is only when you attempt to organize a truth that it becomes a lie. Very few of the people on Earth whom I’ve observed are willing to accept another’s truths as valid when they conflict with their own, or with the accepted ‘organization’ of a truth.”

The illusion is that people do not possess free will and therefore can believe only what they are taught by means of others’ teaching, proselytizing, governing, healing, or motivating. People on your planet are choosers, yet the leaders think they can choose for the people, and it simply isn’t that way. That is the illusion. The road to enlightenment or self-awareness is an inner path. Leaders can only provide a healthy environment in which people can attain their own truths,” she said.